The Swingset Takes Desire Resort – Riviera Maya 2020

We'll be the first to admit that our trip isn't for everybody. We approach our takeover much differently than many others.
The Swingset Takes Desire has always aimed to be a place for all, but especially for those who feel out of place among the masses. We look to provide space for the communities that swinging doesn't always serve, be it the LGBTQ community, BDSMers, and folks who don't necessarily consider themselves swingers. While our group is chocked full of swingers, you'll also find the polyamorous, nudists, triads and quads, those looking to explore their sexuality and themselves.
We are definitely a trip for people who are DTF (down to fuck) but also pride ourselves in being a trip for people who are down to talk, down to meet, down to flirt, down to play (and not just sexy play), and down to connect.
The connections we make in life can define who we are as people, and every year we make connections, and see connections made, as deep as any friendship, and our final day are like the last day at camp, when all you can do is plan trips to visit, or promise you'll see them again next year.
On our trip, you do you! We have events, parties, our own themes, live podcasts, sexy workshops and demonstrations, the first dungeon night in the disco, and more. Our events are designed to help you meet and connect with as many people as possible, and run all week!
This sound like your jam?
Join us for the ninth annual Swingset Takes Desire resort takeover this November 7-14th.
The Swingset Takes Desire changed our lives. Maybe it can change yours.
Hope to see you there!
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
Events & Workshops
Here are some of the events and workshops from our 2019 trip!
Speed Dating • Pegging & Anal Demo
Themed Orgies • Gang Bangs
Foam Party • Gspot & Squirting Class
Gangbang Workshop • Energy Play
Desire for Shy Folk & Newbies
Wine & Beer Social • Karaoke
Flogging Demo • Live Podcasts
Theme Nights
While Desire Resorts – Riviera Maya has their own regular theme nights, we change them to fit our crowd better. Here are this 2019's theme nights!
Pantheon • Heavy Petting Zoo
Kings & Queens • Fetish & Kink
Heroes & Villains • Pride / Rainbow
Saturday Morning Cartoons
Prices
These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay
Deluxe Garden View: 4,550 USD
Superior Garden View: 4,760 USD
Deluxe Ocean View: 4,990 USD
Garden View Jacuzzi Suite: 5,390 USD
Ocean View Jacuzzi Suite: 6,090 USD
Passion Suites: 7,950 USD
Availability for stays of less than seven nights is limited, so please fill out the form to the right if you need an adjusted schedule.
Missives from Paradise
Every year, we record a live podcast from the resort. Below you'll find episodes recorded on the trip and those looking back and reflecting on the trip.