Fewer than 15 Rooms Remain!


Every year, we at Life on the Swingset: The Podcast host a full resort takeover of the greatest place on Earth: Desire Resort – Riviera Maya in Cancún, Mexico. This all-inclusive resort boasts a beautiful beach, pool, and massive hot tub, four excellent restaurants, three full bars, and, most importantly, a place to be yourself.

From the beginning, we have worked with the resort to fully bend and shape the trip to be the most inclusive and spectacularly geeky trip that Desire sees all year.

On this trip, we curate theme nights, evening entertainment, music, activities, workshops, and more, and strive to bring together straight, bi, pansexual, and gay swingers, polyamorists, nudists, quads, triads, couples, exhibitionists, BDSMers, and those just curious and looking to explore.

We believe that everyone has something new, something exciting that they'd love to try, and we want to give the tools, education, space, and encouragement to do just that at The Swingset Takes Desire.

We host workshops on non-monogamy, anal play, flogging, and more. Years ago we worked with Desire to build the first full BDSM Dungeon for a night in the disco, complete with St Andrews Crosses, flogging benches, and a suspension station, along with workshops to unleash your inner dom or sub. Every year sees play parties, gang bangs, and orgies both hosted and pop-up, themed costume nights, live podcast recordings, karaoke, wine socials, cocktails, prizes and giveaways, foam parties, and just relaxing by the pool, beach, or in the hot tub.

It's all there for your exploratory delight, a sexy menu just waiting for you to participate as much or as little as you’re comfortable doing. There is no one way to do Desire, and we’d never presume to suggest which way is the perfect one for you.

Your hosts for this Magical Hedonist Tour are Dylan, Ginger, and Cooper from Life on the Swingset: The Podcast; JV and Shara from Ending the Sexual Dark Age; and more.

The Swingset Takes Desire is a place to let go and be yourself, free from the confines of the boring part of the world, where we can embrace the fact that our lives truly aren't like other people's. Join us in the spirit of inclusivity, exploration, and glorious hedonism! You'll be glad you came.

Desire is an intimately sized resort, and the number of rooms available are limited and sell out fast. If you're interested in coming to paradise with us, it’s a great idea to fill out our booking request form to the right NOW!

Our travel agency is Char Travel, and they will take very good care of you.

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Desire 2019
Our trip runs 11/2-11/9, if you need fewer nights, or a different week, please enter that.
Pricing is based on a FULL WEEK FOR 2 GUESTS, shorter stays will be adjusted.

Events & Workshops

Here are some of the events and workshops for our 2019 trip!

Speed Dating • Pegging & Anal Demo
Themed Orgies • Gang Bangs
Foam Party • Gspot & Squirting Class
Gangbang Workshop • Energy Play
Desire for Shy Folk & Newbies
Wine & Beer Social • Karaoke
Flogging Demo •
Live Podcasts

Theme Nights

While Desire Resorts – Riviera Maya has their own regular theme nights, we change them to fit our crowd better.  Here are this year's theme nights!

Pantheon •  Heavy Petting Zoo
Kings & Queens •  Fetish & Kink
Heroes & Villains •  Pride / Rainbow
Saturday Morning Cartoons


These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay

Deluxe Garden View room: 4,340 USD
Superior Garden View room: 4,550 USD
Deluxe Ocean View room: 4,830 USD
Garden View Jacuzzi Suite: 5,180 USD
Ocean View Jacuzzi Suite: 5,810 USD
Passion Suites: 7,770 USD

Availability for stays of less than seven nights is limited, so please fill out the form to the right if you need an adjusted schedule.

Missives from Paradise

Every year, we record a live podcast from the resort. Below you'll find episodes recorded on the trip and those looking back and reflecting on the trip.

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