2021 The Swingset Takes Desire Resort – Riviera Maya
Desire 2021 – Covid-19 Updates
Our 2020 trip to Desire was, as we know, unfortunately scrubbed due to the Covid-19 pandemic. As the future is beginning to look brighter, and let's be honest, we all need it, we're planning our November 2021 trip, and putting everything we can into making it the best year of The Swingset Takes Desire EVER!
That said, we all know that life can throw curveballs, and the stewardship of the health of our Swingset community will always inform our choices whether or not to gather in-person.
We'll be the first to admit that our trip isn't for everybody. We approach our takeover much differently than many others.
The Swingset Takes Desire has always aimed to be a place for all, but especially for those who feel out of place among the masses. We look to provide space for the communities that swinging doesn't always serve, be it the LGBTQ community, BDSMers, and folks who don't necessarily consider themselves swingers. While our group is chocked full of swingers, you'll also find the polyamorous, nudists, triads and quads, those looking to explore their sexuality and themselves.
We are definitely a trip for people who are DTF (down to fuck) but also pride ourselves in being a trip for people who are down to talk, down to meet, down to flirt, down to play (and not just sexy play), and down to connect.
The connections we make in life can define who we are as people, and every year we make connections, and see connections made, as deep as any friendship, and our final day are like the last day at camp, when all you can do is plan trips to visit, or promise you'll see them again next year.
On our trip, you do you! We have events, parties, our own themes, live podcasts, sexy workshops and demonstrations, the first dungeon night in the disco, and more. Our events are designed to help you meet and connect with as many people as possible, and run all week!
This sound like your jam?
Join us for the ninth annual Swingset Takes Desire resort takeover this November 6-13th.
The Swingset Takes Desire changed our lives. Maybe it can change yours.
Hope to see you there!
Book Now for 2021!
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
Events & Workshops
Here are some of the events and workshops for our 2021 trip!
Speed Dating • Pegging & Anal Demo Themed Orgies • Gang Bangs Foam Party • Rope Classes Cuddle Party • Energy Play Desire for Shy Folk & Newbies Wine & Beer Social • Karaoke
Flogging Demo • Live Podcasts
and More to Come!
While Desire has their own regular theme nights, on our takeovers we also takeover the themes! Here are 2021's theme nights! (Click them for more info!)
The carnival is coming to town, and it's bringing with it something dark, something evil, something wicked, but oh so tempting” – Let's fill the evening with circus performers, carnies, ring masters, dangerous animals, or villainous ne'er-do-wells – perhaps the evil ringmaster – the illustrated man himself – Mr Dark will make an appearance?
What's long and hard and full of seamen? A submarine of course! What strange sights will the crew of the USS Penetration see if they visit us tonight? Merfolk? Sexy Atlanteans? Neptune or Venus on a half shell? Cruising sharks or cuddle fish? Definitely hoping for some naughty tentacled shenanigans! Regardless I hope we can all agree to be fronds and not anemones.
In addition to stalwarts goddesses and gods like Bacchus, this year we're encouraging shy denizens of the wood to make their appearances: Nymphs, naiads, satyrs, qilins, nomes, goblins, elves, or perhaps a hellhound or two.
These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay