Do I have to play if I come to Dungeon Night?
No! There is ample room for spectators and the bar is open. The play area will be roped off with only one entrance, and there will be no play across the rope line. Part of the intention is to provide safe and comfortable access to all, including those who are only interested in watching.
Do I have to bring a partner to play?
No! If you’re curious about bottoming (receiving), there will be a number of extremely capable and experienced service tops who will be happy to take you for as mild or wild of a ride as your interests may dictate. Explicit, informed and enthusiastic consent is always the theme.
What’s a “service top?”
A service top is an experienced top/dominant who enjoys kink enough that they’re happy to play without any kind of reciprocation or sexual gratification. They’re happy to top as a service as opposed to topping as part of a personal relationship. Our service tops have a wide variety of skills and interests. They’ll take the time to find out what you want and get you where you’d like to go.
Can I have a specific service top if I have a preference?
Absolutely, just let one of the DMs know who you’d like to work with.
I want to play with my partner but we don’t have any toys or experience. Can we still play in the dungeon together?
Absolutely. All the service tops have some toys that are loaners, and are also happy to be mentors while you play with your partner. If you’re new to kink, we strongly recommend you come to the workshops on Monday afternoon. Most/all of the service tops will be there, along with the dungeon gear.
What kind of play do the service tops offer?
The service tops will offer at least the following list of services:
- Impact play (flogging, spanking, paddles, crops, and whatever else may be handy and up your alley
- Sensory play (hot, cold, rough, smooth, soft, hard, blindfolds, etc)
- Electricity play (violet wands)
- Wax play
- Bondage (rope, cuffs, etc.)
- Feel free to inquire about anything special, ideally beforehand
What if my partner and I have our own toys and just want to play?
If the station you’re looking to use is open, just talk to a DM and you can walk right in and play. Popular stations may have wait lists, as mentioned above.
Will there be dancing anywhere on Dungeon Night since the disco is closed?
There will be a DJ and dancing in the courtyard.
Where can I get some introductory info on BDSM safety?
For an extremely helpful beginner’s resource on BDSM health and safety, as well as a general Safer Sex Guide, please visit https://nelaonline.org/publications/safer-sex-booklet. Or, for direct download of the guide formatted for mobile devices, https://nelaonline.org/files/download/43
A great resource for rope bondage safety can also be found at http://www.remedialropes.com/basic-bondage-safety