Workshops & Events

Want to learn about some sexy things, new techniques, and things to try?

Desire For Shy Folks & Newbies

Nervous? Shy? Introverted? First, kudos for putting yourself out there and coming to Desire – to help make your first day easier, we host a relaxed and informal discussion/pep-talk on what you can expect from The Swingset's takeover week, and how to get the most out of this trip!

The Pegging Class

We will guide you through a discussion of pegging and live demonstration of the act. While demonstrating, we will discuss the act, preparation, and the elusive prostate orgasm. You’re encouraged to bring your own dildos and harnesses and participate alongside. In the past, it has happened, that this turns into a pegging train on Cooper, so that’s always possible.

Rum, Ropes, & Red Bottoms

A workshop covering mostly rope bondage and impact play like flogging and spanking. Demos will include bedroom bondage and impact play, and who knows what might happen once people start making requests! You’re encouraged to bring your own toys if you have them, and there will be time set aside for mentoring and open play. It will also be an opportunity to meet the Dungeon Night service tops as most/all will be there.

Cocktail Social/Welcome

The Swingset crew will be on hand to welcome you to the resort, raise some glasses, and welcome you to the resort in spectacular fashion.

Courtyard Karaoke

One of the surprisingly most popular events last year was Courtyard Karaoke, making a triumphant return with Dylan as your KJ and a collection of nearly 100,000 songs, your request is his Desire.

Disco Dungeon Night

The kinkiest of Swingsetters invite you to an evening takeover of the disco and playroom that will fulfill your deepest BDSM desires. Everyone is welcome, and you can get much more info from the first part of this guidebook. Monday’s kinky toy show/tell and workshop are highly recommended for anyone new to or curious about kink. – Click here for more info on this event.

Foam Party

Twice during our week, the resort fills the pool with foam from a massive foam machine. Dance and play to your heart’s content. Cooper recommends you indulge your steampunk know-how with goggles and a mask. Because Cooper…is weird.

Low Light Hot-Tub Stargazing

Multiple times during the week, after midnight, we’ll be dimming the lights at the hot tub to get some stargazing in. The Leonid meteor shower is, after all, the following week, and meteors are often spottable. The hot tub will still be host to its regular shenanigans. Just darker. So be careful.

Wine and Beer Social

Wine and beer aficionados among us gather in the rotunda to sip wine, and discuss whatever is on our minds (which may be a lot by Friday!)  You are encouraged to bring spirits from home, from the Airport duty free, or from the resort.

Late Nite Play Events

A few nights of our trip will be dedicated to special play events, facilitated and themed up by the hot tub.

Women Only Orgy  •  Gang Bangs/Trains  •  Bi Guystravaganza

Breakfast Club Discussions

A daily discussion group at the breakfast buffet will have a facilitator and different discussion topic every day.

Polyamory & Relationships  •  Risk Aware Sex & STI Stigma  •  Communication Tools
Insecurity & Fear in the Lifestyle  •  Privilege  •  Attraction Spectrums

Live Podcasts

Podcasts from our hosts recorded live in the courtyard.

Life on the Swingset

Cooper, Ginger, and Dylan podcast live and welcome you to be part of the audience and participate in the show.

Book Now for 2022!

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Our trip runs 11/5-11/12, 2022, if you'd like to come in early, need fewer nights, or a different week, please enter that.
Pricing is based on a FULL WEEK FOR 2 GUESTS, shorter stays will be adjusted. Adding a 3rd person to the room is 50% extra.
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