Late night in the beds near the hot tubs, we have some themed playtime suggestions. Below are this year's themes.
Saturday: High School Party Games
A bacchanal is awaiting your presence. Join Bacchus as an acolyte, follower, or fellow god, demigod, or demiurge. Old god or new, the only thing certain is we will all revel in the pleasures of the flesh.
Sunday: Mutual Masturbation
What's your poison? Weimar Republic, or early 20th Century Paris? Absinthe addled artists, decadent dandies and players, masters of ceremony, cancan dancers, performers and audience members of all genders. “Welcome to Cabaret!”
Monday: Women Only Orgy
Star Wars, or Star Trek? Doctor Who or The Fifth Element? Maybe the purple haired beauties from U.F.O? Let your imagination run wild, and your sci fi sexual exploits shine.
Tuesday: Oral Delights
What tickles your fancy in that ‘special' way? Leather, latex, lace, PVC, or rope? Maybe something else? Indulge your bliss, we all want to see. This theme night occurs on the same night as our Dungeon Disco takeover.
Come as your favorite, prince, princess, plucky sidekick, fairy godparent, or evil villain or henchperson. The only requirement here is that these stories all have to have (cough) happy endings. Kudos for the most bent, twisted, perverted, or original interpretation.
Thursday: Gang Bangs/Trains
Pick a character or star from your favorite play, film, or music genre. Plunder the best/worst films, plays, musicals, or musical artists that pop culture has to offer. Rocky Horror, Hedwig, Gone With the Wind, Bill & Ted, Romeo & Juliet, Elvis, Gaga… the list is endless.
Friday: Last Call
Show your true colours, fluorescent pink, lipstick red, shiny black, or fly your Pride flag proudly with all the colours of the rainbow. Show us who you really are, or who you would be if you could be anything you desired.
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”