Open for breakfast 7 AM – Noon Open for dinner 6:30 PM – 10 PM
Buffet style, open for breakfast and dinner, no reservations. International food with a different theme every night – Casual at breakfast (shorts, tshirts, sandals). Casual Elegant at dinner (collared shirt, pants & shoes but not too strict).
Open for lunch from 11 AM – 6 PM
Buffet style, open air by the pool, no reservations. The menu is basically a lunch menu version of Arrecife’s dinner but it doesn’t change much from day to day. For women a bikini bottom and cover-up (even fishnet) will get the job done. For guys, shorts and a shirt but they’re not terribly strict. Shoes/sandals ARE required.
Open 6:30 PM – 10 PM
Fine dining, four-course high-end cuisine with an Italian feel, reservations required. Slacks, shoes and a collared shirt for the guys. Pretty much anything classy or sexy for the ladies.
Open 6:30 PM – 10 PM
Fine dining, Japanese-inspired cuisine including sushi and two hibachi tables, reservations required for the hibachis. Slacks, shoes and a collared shirt for the guys. Pretty much anything classy or sexy for the ladies.
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”