Arrival & Name Necklaces • Courtyard • 11am-5pm Welcome & Cocktail Social • Courtyard • 5-6pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 6-8pm Late Nite Play Theme: Mutual Masturbation • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Sunday, November 3
Evening Theme: Heroes & Villains
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Breakfast Club – Topic: Insecurity & Fear in the Lifestyle • El Arrecife• 10:30-11:30am Desire For Shy Folks & Newbies • Gazebo • 12-1:30pm Speed Meet & Greet • El Arrecife • 1:30-4pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Karaoke • Courtyard • 6-8:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Women Only Orgy • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Monday, November 4
Evening Theme: Heavy Petting Zoo
Morning Meditation • Beach Gazebo • 9-10am Tuning In and Turning On: Fucking on All Frequencies • Disco Playroom • 10:30-11:30am Breakfast Club – Topic: Polyamory & Relationships • El Arrecife • 10:30-11:30am How to Have a Gang Bang • Disco • 12-1:30pm Gang Bang Mixer • Disco • 1:30-1:45pm Kinky Toy Show & Tell • Disco • 2-3:30pm Rum, Ropes and Red Bottoms • Disco • 3:30-5pm Foam Party • Pool • 4:30-6pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Group Dinner • El Arrecife • 7:30-9:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Gang Bangs/Trains • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Tuesday, November 5
Evening Theme: Fetish & Kink • 7-10pm
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Breakfast Club – Topic: Risk Aware Sex & STI Stigma • El Arrecife • 10:30-11:30am Pegging & Anal Discussion & Workshop • Disco • 12-1:30pm Gspot & Squirting Discussion & Workshop • Disco • 2-3:30pm Tonia's Sushi Buffet • Lunch Buffet • 3:30-4:30pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Disco Dungeon Night • Disco • 8pm-12am Late Nite Play Theme: Oral Pleasure • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Wednesday, November 6
Evening Theme: Saturday Morning Cartoons • 7-10pm
Morning Meditation • Beach Gazebo • 9-10am Breakfast Club – Topic: Privilege • El Arrecife • 10:30-11:30am Live Podcast: Sex Out Loud • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Massage Party • Playroom • 2-3:30pm Wine Tasting with Nobles • Suki • 2:30-4pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Karaoke • Courtyard • 6-8:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Butt Stuff • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Thursday, November 7
Evening Theme: Kings & Queens • 7-10pm
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Breakfast Club – Topic: Attraction Spectrums • El Arrecife • 10:30-11:30am Live Podcast: Ending the Sexual Dark Age • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Live Podcast: By the Bi • Courtyard • 1:30-3pm Toy Show & Tell • Playroom • 3:30-5pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Bistravaganza • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Friday, November 8
Evening Theme: Pride / Rainbow • 7-10pm
Morning Meditation • Gazebo • 9-10am Breakfast Club – Topic: Communication Tools • El Arrecife • 10:30-11:30am Live Podcast: Life on the Swingset • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Foam Party • Pool • 1:30-3pm Wine & Beer Social • Courtyard • 3:30-5pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4:30-6:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Last Call • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Saturday, November 9
Farewells • Courtyard • 10am-2pm
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