Saturday
Upon your arrival at the resort and check-in you’ll be able to create a name bead necklace (for identification help while nude!) as well as greet many of your hosts and other Swingsetters in the main courtyard.
The Swingset crew will be on hand to welcome you to the resort, raise some glasses, and welcome you to the resort in spectacular fashion.
Cooper, Dylan, and the Resort Staff welcome you!
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Sunday
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Nervous? Shy? Introverted? First, kudos for putting yourself out there and coming to Desire – to help make your first day easier, we host a relaxed and informal discussion/pep-talk on what you can expect from The Swingset's takeover week, and how to get the most out of this trip!
For years this has been our most popular event, and rightly so! Thanks to the wonderful system we've put in place, everybody who attends this event will get to meet and speak to everybody else who attends. No small talk allowed!
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
With Dylan as your KJ, we'll have two nights of Karaoke, this first one in the courtyard. We have a collection of nearly 100,000 songs and your request is Dylan's Desire.
Multiple times during the week, after midnight, we’ll be dimming the lights at the hot tub to get some stargazing in. The Leonid meteor shower is, after all, the following week, and meteors are often spottable. The hot tub will still be host to its regular shenanigans. Just darker. So be careful.
Monday
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Join us for a facilitated peer discussion of fears, thoughts, and strategies for navigating sexy spaces in a post covid world.
Whether you think you might be kinky, know you’re kinky, or are just plain curious about what kinksters do, this workshop will make your ears (and maybe other parts!) perk up!
We will cover some BDSM basics & what to expect on Dungeon Night. We’ll also demo some BDSM play offered at the Disco Dungeon, including: sensation play, impact play and bondage/rope. Plenty of time will be set aside to chat with the Dungeon Crew, including Service Tops, about BDSM & the Dungeon.
A casual LGBTQIA+ social around the beach bar. Anyone is welcome to attend, but we would ask that we keep the space centered on the LGBTQIA+ community. An opportunity to mix and mingle with other LGBTQIA+ folks in a smaller setting. For those who are interested, we will likely migrate from there to HOT TUB HAPPY HOUR after the social.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
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Tuesday
Each year, more and more Swingset Takes Desire guests have been casting off the chains of their assigned gender, some even of gender entirely. Do you find that hot? Join us for a frank discussion on engaging with transgender and non-binary people when negotiating sexy times.
We're all navigating reconnecting with others, reconnecting with our partners is as important. Note: This is taking place in the Disco Playroom. While the Dungeon is being setup, please be careful on your way to the playroom and be respectful of the work in progress!
Twice during our week, the resort fills the pool with foam from a massive foam machine. Dance and play to your heart’s content. Cooper recommends you indulge your steampunk know-how with goggles and a mask. Because Cooper…is weird.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
The Community Dungeon is a time for all kinksters to enjoy the Disco Dungeon. Bring your partners, toys and enjoy!
Experienced Dungeon Monitors will be present to oversee safe and responsible play.
Wednesday
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Colin, Kenny, and Michelle host a board gaming event in Arrecife! They'll bring the games, you bring yourselves, and the fun will come naturally! they will teach anything you don't know how to play!
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Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Note: you must be ontime for this event, doors will close 20 minutes after event start. You will not be allowed in after the doors close. Attendance requires relative sobriety.
Get your oxytocin fix! Keeley hosts a cuddle party starting with a structured beginning workshop followed by cuddles! This is a platonic connection event. Anything additional can happen elsewhere, after the event.
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Thursday
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Mike Joseph brings Detoxicity LIVE in paradise! Mike invites you all to participate, story tell, and comment, as he explores the expanded world of masculinity.
We will guide you through a discussion of pegging and live demonstration of the act. While demonstrating, we will discuss the act, preparation, and the elusive prostate orgasm. You’re encouraged to bring your own dildos and harnesses and participate alongside. In the past, it has happened, that this turns into a pegging train on Cooper, so that’s always possible.
Wine and beer aficionados among us gather in the rotunda to sip wine, and discuss whatever is on our minds (which may be a lot by then!) You are encouraged to bring spirits from home, from the Airport duty free, or from the resort.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
With Dylan as your KJ, we'll have two nights of Karaoke, this second one in the Disco. We have a collection of nearly 100,000 songs and your request is Dylan's Desire.
Friday
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Twice during our week, the resort fills the pool with foam from a massive foam machine. Dance and play to your heart’s content. Cooper recommends you indulge your steampunk know-how with goggles and a mask. Because Cooper…is weird.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Multiple times during the week, after midnight, we’ll be dimming the lights at the hot tub to get some stargazing in. The Leonid meteor shower is, after all, the following week, and meteors are often spottable. The hot tub will still be host to its regular shenanigans. Just darker. So be careful.
Theme Nights
In addition to stalwarts goddesses and gods like Bacchus, this year we're encouraging shy denizens of the wood to make their appearances: Nymphs, naiads, satyrs, qilins, nomes, goblins, elves, or perhaps a hellhound or two.
The carnival is coming to town, and it's bringing with it something dark, something evil, something wicked, but oh so tempting” – Let's fill the evening with circus performers, carnies, ring masters, dangerous animals, or villainous ne'er-do-wells – perhaps the evil ringmaster – the illustrated man himself – Mr Dark will make an appearance?
Think “pervertables” but for your whole body. Reuse previous costumes, repurpose household goods, or reduce your costume to the bare minimum. One person's junk is another person's fabulous outfit!
A night full of vampires, villains, and their willing victims – lace, leather, and gothic splendor. No costume is too over the top, or too dark.
Set your phasers to STUNNING! The universe is ours to discover on this night of sensual space folx, amorous aliens, and inter planetary sexploration. Pew pew pew!
What's long and hard and full of seamen? A submarine of course! What strange sights will the crew of the USS Penetration see if they visit us tonight? Merfolk? Sexy Atlanteans? Neptune or Venus on a half shell? Cruising sharks or cuddle fish? Definitely hoping for some naughty tentacled shenanigans! Regardless I hope we can all agree to be fronds and not anemones.
Shiny, sparkly, fluorescent and glowing or full of rainbows! Shine bright you sexy people!