Saturday
Upon your arrival at the resort and check-in you’ll be able to create a name bead necklace (for identification help while nude!) as well as greet many of your hosts and other Swingsetters in the main courtyard.
The Swingset crew will be on hand to welcome you to the resort, raise some glasses, and welcome you to the resort in spectacular fashion.
Cooper, Dylan, and the Resort Staff welcome you!
SWINGO! Join us for a titillating twist on Bingo like you've never played it before! Keeley and Lonnie host this unique icebreaker event to help you get to know your fellow Swingwtters a bit more intimately. You could win one of our incredible prizes or make a great connection with someone new. but you’ll have to play to find out!
Sunday
Whether you think you might be kinky, know you’re definitely kinky, or are just plain curious about what kinksters do, this workshop will make your ears (and maybe other parts!) perk up! We will cover some BDSM basics & what to expect on Dungeon Night. We’ll also demo some BDSM play offered at the Disco Dungeon, such as sensation play, impact play and bondage/rope. Plenty of time will be set aside to chat with the Dungeon Crew, including Service Tops, about BDSM & the Dungeon. We look forward to beating…. oops… meeting you there!
Nervous? Shy? Introverted? First, kudos for putting yourself out there and coming to Desire – to help make your first day easier, we host a relaxed and informal discussion/pep-talk on what you can expect from The Swingset's takeover week, and how to get the most out of this trip!
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
With Dylan as your KJ, we'll have two nights of Karaoke, this first one in the courtyard. We have a collection of nearly 100,000 songs and your request is Dylan's Desire.
Multiple times during the week, after midnight, we’ll be dimming the lights at the hot tub to get some stargazing in. The Leonid meteor shower is, after all, the following week, and meteors are often spottable. The hot tub will still be host to its regular shenanigans. Just darker. So be careful.
Monday
A casual LGBTQIA+ social around the beach bar. Anyone is welcome to attend, but we would ask that we keep the space centered on the LGBTQIA+ community. An opportunity to mix and mingle with other LGBTQIA+ folks in a smaller setting.
Twice during our week, the resort fills the pool with foam from a massive foam machine. Dance and play to your heart’s content. Cooper recommends you indulge your steampunk know-how with goggles and a mask. Because Cooper…is weird.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Tuesday
We're all navigating reconnecting with others, reconnecting with our partners is as important. Note: This is taking place in the Disco Playroom. While the Dungeon is being setup, please be careful on your way to the playroom and be respectful of the work in progress!
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
All nonbinary and female identifying folk are invited to attend this exclusive orgy. Men will be allowed to watch from a distance, but not participate.
Wednesday
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Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Because he's a host who believes in thoroughly abusing his power over the schedule, Cooper has made his Sensory Deprivation Bang an official event. As with last year, Coop will be blindfolded and wear noise cancelling headphones, while prone and naked on a Hot Tub Bed. Elle will be gatekeeping, but all are invited to play and fuck with Coop.
Thursday
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Mike Joseph brings Detoxicity LIVE in paradise! Mike invites you all to participate, story tell, and comment, as he explores the expanded world of masculinity.
We will guide you through a discussion of pegging and live demonstration of the act. While demonstrating, we will discuss the act, preparation, and the elusive prostate orgasm. You’re encouraged to bring your own dildos and harnesses and participate alongside. In the past, it has happened, that this turns into a pegging train on Cooper, so that’s always possible.
Wine and beer aficionados among us gather in the rotunda to sip wine, and discuss whatever is on our minds (which may be a lot by then!) You are encouraged to bring spirits from home, from the Airport duty free, or from the resort.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
This exclusive play party event invites bi/pan/queer men, nonbinary, and male identified, to come and play in a safe space. Women and female identified are welcome to play as well, but we encourage everybody to remember that this space is designed to center the oft invisible bi male.
Friday
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Cooper, Dylan, and Ginger, as well as many Desire hosts and ambassadors, will get together to talk about the week that's been, recording it for posterity (and the internet.)
Twice during our week, the resort fills the pool with foam from a massive foam machine. Dance and play to your heart’s content. Cooper recommends you indulge your steampunk know-how with goggles and a mask. Because Cooper…is weird.
Every evening at Desire there's an unofficial event that seems to happen all by itself, Hot Tub Happy Hour. As the afternoon wanes, everybody moves up to the hot tub to meet folks, play, make dinner plans, and more. Join us when you can.
Multiple times during the week, after midnight, we’ll be dimming the lights at the hot tub to get some stargazing in. The Leonid meteor shower is, after all, the following week, and meteors are often spottable. The hot tub will still be host to its regular shenanigans. Just darker. So be careful.
Theme Nights
Silly, childish, uncomplicated, and sickly sweet – and that's just the breakfast cereals! What do you think of when you think about Saturday Morning Cartoons? Comfy jammies? Silly characters? The beginning of a life long love affair with animation/anime? Or does your brain go somewhere else? Please share!
Come as your favourite iconic (or less than iconic) character or couple from stage or screen. Plunder the best/worst films, plays, or musicals that pop culture has to offer. Rocky Horror, Hedwig, Gone with the Wind, Bill & Ted, Romeo & Juliet. So. Many. Options.
A night full of vampires, villains, and their willing victims – lace, leather, and gothic splendor. No costume is too over the top, or too dark.
Come as your favorite, prince, princess, plucky sidekick, fairy godparent, or evil villain or henchperson. The only requirement here is that these stories all have to have (cough) happy endings. Kudos for the most bent, twisted, perverted, or original interpretation.
Set your phasers to STUNNING! The universe is ours to discover on this night of sensual space folx, amorous aliens, and inter planetary sexploration. Pew pew pew!
When you think of heroes and villains where does that take you? Superman? Lex Luthor? Rey? Captain Phasma? Julius Caesar? Genghis Kahn? Catherine the Great? Madame Curie? Eliot Ness? Al Capone? Batman? Harley Quinn? Regardless, be your best or baddest (or both) sexiest self.
Shiny, sparkly, fluorescent and glowing or full of rainbows! Shine bright you sexy people!