Arrival & Name Necklaces • Courtyard • 11am-5pm Welcome & Cocktail Social • Courtyard • 5-6pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 6-8pm Late Nite Play Theme: Mutual Masturbation • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Sunday, November 3
Evening Theme: Heroes & Villains • 7-10pm
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Desire For Shy Folks & Newbies • TBD • 12-1:30pm Speed Meet & Greet • Arrifice • 1:30-4pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Karaoke • Courtyard • 6-8:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Women Only Orgy • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Monday, November 4
Evening Theme: Heavy Petting Zoo • 7-10pm
Morning Meditation • Gazebo • 9-10am How to Have a Gang Bang • Disco • 12-1:30pm Kinky Toy Show & Tell • Disco • 2-3:30pm Rum, Ropes and Red Bottoms • Disco • 3:30-5pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Group Dinner • 6-8:30pm • Arrifice • 6:30-8:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Gang Bangs/Trains • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Tuesday, November 5
Evening Theme: Fetish & Kink • 7-10pm
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Pegging & Anal Discussion & Workshop • Disco • 12-1:30pm Toy Show & Tell • Playroom • 2-3:30pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Disco Dungeon Night • Disco • 7-11pm Late Nite Play Theme: Oral Pleasure • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Wednesday, November 6
Evening Theme: Saturday Morning Cartoons • 7-10pm
Morning Meditation • Gazebo • 9-10am Live Podcast: Sex Out Loud • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Massage Party • Playroom • 2-3:30pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Karaoke • Courtyard • 6-8:30pm Late Nite Play Theme: Butt Stuff • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Thursday, November 7
Evening Theme: Kings & Queens • 7-10pm
Beach Workout • Volleyball Court • 9-10am Live Podcast: Ending the Sexual Dark Age • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Live Podcast: By the Bi • Courtyard • 1:30-3pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Late Nite Play Theme: Bistravaganza • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am
Friday, November 8
Evening Theme: Pride / Rainbow • 7-10pm
Morning Meditation • Gazebo • 9-10am Live Podcast: Life on the Swingset • Courtyard • 12-1:30pm Foam Party • Pool • 1:30-3pm Wine & Beer Social • Courtyard • 3:30-5pm Hot Tub Happy Hour • Hot tub • 4-6pm Late Nite Play Theme: Last Call • Hot tub beds • 10:30pm-12am Low Light Stargazing • Hot tub • 11:45pm-2:45am
Saturday, November 9
Farewells • Courtyard • 10am-2pm
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”