Nights at Desire are your opportunity to be a part of the themed masquerades. The Swingset’s own Pixie and Damien have carefully curated the theme nights for the past three years of trips. Below are 2019’s themes.
Saturday: A Pantheon of Gods and Myth
A bacchanal is awaiting your presence. Join Bacchus as an acolyte, follower, or fellow god, demigod, or demiurge. Old god or new, the only thing certain is we will all revel in the pleasures of the flesh.
Sunday: Heroes & Villains
When you think of heroes and villains where does that take you? Wonder Woman? Dr. Maru? Rey? Captain Phasma? Julius Caesar? Genghis Kahn? Catherine the Great? Madame Curie? Eliot Ness? Al Capone? Harry Potter? Voldemort? Regardless, be your best or baddest (or both) sexiest self.
Monday: Heavy Petting Zoo (AKA: Fuck like an Animal)
What animal are you? Care to share? Sleek feline? Playful puppy? Prancing pony? Strong and sinewy? Soft and strokeable? Would you prefer to curl up on someone’s lap, or stalk and hunt in the dead of night? Do you have a master, or are you king of the beasts?
Tuesday: What’re You Into? – Fetish & Kink
What tickles your fancy in that ‘special’ way? Leather, latex, lace, PVC, or rope? Maybe something else? Indulge your bliss, we all want to see. This theme night occurs on the same night as our Dungeon Disco takeover.
Wednesday: Saturday Morning Cartoons
Silly, childish, uncomplicated, and sickly sweet – and that’s just the breakfast cereals! What do you think of when you think about Saturday Morning Cartoons? Comfy jammies? Silly characters? The beginning of a life long love affair with animation -> anime? Or does your brain go somewhere else? Please share!
Thursday: Kings & Queens
Royalty doesn’t have to be a drag, but it can be if you want. Whether Kings and Queens mean chess, Return of the King, Star Wars, the British royals, or crossgender play, this is the night for you.
Friday: Hoist the Colors High – Pride / Rainbow
Show your true colours, fluorescent pink, lipstick red, shiny black, or fly your Pride flag proudly with all the colours of the rainbow. Show us who you really are, or who you would be if you could be anything you desired.
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”